About Man Mistake Eraser

We all feel like we've made mistakes with men - here's a program that will change how you look at your relationships and how you handle them - for good!

Some of the biggest disasters in relationships happen at the very beginning. Because of this, a relationship that might have been promising - never gets off the ground. Things stop even before they start!

I received this question:

Dear Mimi,

Could you let myself and others know if there is any way of redeeming yourself when you realise you've already revealed too much?

-- C."

What C. is talking about is "TMI" - when you reveal Too Much Information about yourself, or the wrong kind of information, too early in a relationship.

"To Tell or Not To Tell" - what and when, how much and why - is truly important. If you underestimate what your man can hear - and when - it can end up hurting you even more than it hurts him.

This topic is thoroughly covered in my program "Man Mistake Eraser."

When you are falling in love with a new man, your own strong feelings can lead you to believe that he has an incredible insight into your heart. This alone can lead you to start telling him your life story starting from Kindergarten.

It can also lead you to think that he is interested in every little detail of your day. Telling him about ANY ache and pain TRIVIA that you really do not need to mention is a definite turn-off. He also probably doesn't need a running list of any allergies, phobias, or medications!

In sickness and in health starts when you say "I do," but NOT when "it's just lunch"!!

It's not just the yukky boss or the outstanding warrant that are "too much information too soon." :)

More often, we tend to spill the beans on other things that are even closer to the heart.

One of the main ways this happens is by getting too SERIOUS too soon. I've written an entire class about that one, too.

Another way it happens is by just telling him too much about your daily problems right away, or telling him a lot about your children right away. He may get the idea that you are wondering if he's "stepdad material"!

YIKES... I'm sure even your kids would want you to "vet" the guy like he's running for Congress before he even gets a chance to leave the toilet seat up at your home.

But again - we ALL make mistakes. You're heard the old phrase "Love makes fools of us all" - it's so true.

Can you fix it if you have said things which make a man start to lose faith in your confidence in yourself?

If you love men, as I am sure you do, then you know that men are forgiving creatures... you can reinvent their image of you. It most definitely is possible to do this. Thank goodness...!
 

Yes, Even Your Love Life Requires Discipline!

There is one way to get rid of a guy fast - even a great guy - when you least want to get rid of him. So let's make sure this does not happen to us.

Don't be the first one to say "I love you."

Often people like to argue about things in theory which are completely different in real life, and this topic can be one of them. No one likes the idea of telling a woman that she should, in principle, not be the first one to say "I love you" in a relationship with a man.

However, for many very good reasons, this guideline has stood the test of time - for most situations.

Your feelings are important - but this does not mean that you should always express them right away. 

Let's put the odds in your favor, and protect you from the kind of emotional impulses that unfortunately can cause a man to withdraw from you.

Yes, sometimes we do have to exercise discipline and restraint in life to get what we want. This is true when it comes to everything from getting good grades in school to having a fit
body to driving a car. We have to follow guidelines and we can't always do what we feel like doing, can we?

Why He Needs to Say "I Love You" First

Here is what NOT to do if you want to keep the interest of a man who has not yet made a commitment to you: in general, the woman should not be the first one to say "I love you"!

You may be feeling this love for him; your love may be true; and it may also be true that he loves you, too. But until HE says these words to you, he is not ready for this huge step
forward in your relationship.

As we all know, saying "I love you" is a major milestone in any romantic relationship. To a woman, it is a time for rejoicing. However, if a man is not ready for this, all he will be feeling is pressure when he hears you say those words, EVEN IF HE IS FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU.

Unfortunately, even if he IS in that delicious "falling in love" process, your saying "I love you" first can be like a huge "wake up call" for him. It may cause him to suddenly realize that things are getting VERY serious.

That is part of what you'll discover in Man Mistake Eraser!

One owner of this program wrote this:

"Thank you, Mimi, The class on not saying 'I love you' first is a keeper to be read and re-read over and over again! It is the best advice I've read in a very long time! All women need to know this and remember!"
-- Beth

"Man Mistake Eraser" truly delivers in helping you to recover from mistakes AND to prevent them in the future.